One cannot underestimate the power of love, more so during dating relationships. You cannot ignore something that will continue throwing each one of you in each others arms. The reason that so many relationships have not withstood the test of time is because most of the parties to the relationships fail to create grounding rules which would establish their entry into the world of full commitment. It is what makes a person move from the intimate world into the hands of sudden emptiness, when they are just a couple of weeks and months into the relationship.
Dating relationships are the surest ways towards forging relationships that will withstand the test of time. You cannot blame humans and their inherent hormones, testosterone and estrogen, which might just drive you into matrimony before you have even started feeling your partner. It is like thinking because the dating partner is breathing a lot, he loves you, until he gets the inhaler out of his pocket.
Whoever said that love is unmistakably blind was not wrong. It is what has made many of us to think that the person we are dating can only be the right one when we are within the furnace of intimacy and threshold of passion. Only after sometime has elapsed do we realize that the schemes of love are also dumb and deaf simply because we were not ready to hear any kind of communication that should have happened between us and our partners.
For one to determine whether the person you are engaging in dating relationships with is the right person, the best thing is just have a session together and begin your homework. It runs deeper than just determining whether you fantasize about the same music or movies. Cues of compatibility are all about the sharing of very common values, spiritual matters and goals of life. It runs deeper to doing things like talking to somebody and getting down to knowing them instead of exchanging a ring as sign of commitment.
Many individuals hate and fear speaking about anything about their dating relationships, where they think that any talk about the kind of romantic life they have and the intimate connections they have can only wane and deflate their love. Since it has a sense of truth, there is nothing like learning all you can about your partner, as you can waste your time thinking that the person will change your life for ever.
High expectations and the wrong things in mind have made many people cry their hearts out and feel like committing suicide when their partner decides that the time is nigh to call a spade a spade. You cannot blame them, they have weighed their souls and the dating relationship, and from the kind of things taking place, you determine that you cannot see any future in the relationship. So you cannot help wondering what has happened to the person you thought was the right person.