It is a common misconception that a woman does not want to get seduced. In the movie Hitch, the main protagonist who is a dating guru, mentioned that no woman wakes up saying “God, I hope I don’t get swept off my feet today.” This is very true. However, this doesn’t mean that seduction is easy. But if you play your cards right and know what the true player knows, the game will stack in your favour.
So what does the player knows that the common man doesn’t? I am about to reveal to you what I call the ‘twin keys to seduction’. With these two keys, you are well on your way to s any woman you want.
The first key to seduction is control.
Being in control is the perhaps the most important trait seeked for by a woman in a man, either consciously or subconsciously. The player must never exert control in a forceful manner – rather he will need to do it subtlely. An easy way to do this is to balance out having control with forfeiting it – for example: “Yes, I will bring you out for drinks this Friday, but I will get to pick where we go to.”
The second key to seduction is patience.
Look – you can never seduction any woman if you are not patient. The true player knows how to pace the process of seduction. The biggest mistake a man can make when seducing a woman is to move too fast. Remember this – women ‘warms up’ far slower than men. They will need to be paced throughout the interaction – if a man ‘moves’ any faster than what the woman is comfortable with, she is most likely to bail out.
The true player knows that the twin weapons of control and patience are the most deadly arsenal in his seduction toolkit. By projecting your gentlemanly traits confidently through carefully paced interaction is the sure way to seduce any woman you want.